Maintaining a relationship is a daily task for both spouses.
Problematic situations need to be discussed and a way out should be sought together. They won't resolve themselves.
According to psychologists, such factors negatively affect family relationships:
-Divorce or conflict relations in the family of the parents of one of the partners.
-Living with parents and in their living space.
- Parental interference in the marital affairs of spouses.
- Early, late or "knock-up" marriages.
- The appearance of a baby in the first years of marriage.
- Excessive passion of one of the spouses for his career.
- Inability or unwillingness to have children.
- Lack of trust.
- Unrealistic expectations.
In addition, psychologists believe that a crisis in family relationships occurs at certain intervals: in the first year of marriage, in the third, fifth, seventh, tenth, twentieth. Less often — on the thirtieth, fortieth and fiftieth. Why is this happening and can it be avoided?
The first and third years: there is a "lapping up" of two ordinary people, each of whom has its own disadvantages and advantages. During this period, you need to learn to listen to each other and hear.
Fifth year: a child appears in the family, which takes all the time and effort to take care of. During this period, the man suffers from a lack of attention from his spouse, and the woman suffers from little help from her spouse. Therefore, it is necessary to distribute the responsibilities of raising a child or involve grandmothers as nannies.
Seventh year: a crisis in a relationship occurs because a woman has to combine taking care of the house with work. By this point, she had already spent enough time on maternity leave and would have already escaped from the domestic hell for any job. However, everyday life remains on her shoulders. A man needs to learn how to find a compromise in this situation.
Tenth: life has been established for a long time, children are growing up, and their careers are advancing. Despite this, the relationship is not so simple: there is a certain satiety and there is no romantic impulse. A man can seek connections on the side, and a woman can initiate a divorce. Both should realize the monotony and monotony and solve the problem together.
Twentieth: the children have matured and do not need parental care; much has been achieved in the professional field, too. There is a feeling of a certain limit, the inability to move anywhere. You need to understand that new opportunities are opening up, and try to make the most of them.
To maintain a relationship, you should not involve other people. A family relationship is a relationship of only two loving hearts. Never insult your other half, do not reproach or give ultimatums. Try to support each other more. And also learn to be interested in the hobbies of your significant other.
A crisis in a relationship is a need to take a step beyond the boundaries of the previous, existing ones. If you don't take this step, the family will fall apart sooner or later. 1xBet Esports & Live Casino Bonus. Esports bettors and live casino fans can claim a 100% bonus up to $100 with the
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